Nadir's dad and I share one favorite gay military position (actually it's my only gay military position): abolish any mention of it from the military code, except to ban any discrimination based on it. This is a family blog, so we can't print any of Nadir's dad's other favorite military positions, but I can report that in netflix he gave 4 stars to, "Mission Position Impossible," which rules out one (incidentally, the first time Nadir's mom went to church in years was in response to a sign declaring, "Apply Inside for a Missionary Position!").
This article explores Britain's gay military position, which is the one that Nadir's dad and I favor: surprise, it has caused no problems. Another area where we libertarians must hold our noses when we vote for Repos.